Membingkai Kontribusi Orang Tua Kristen dalam Mengajarkan Tanggung Jawab pada Anak

Kosma Manurung

Abstract


The failure of parents to teach responsibility to children will cause various bad effects for children both now and in the future. Responsibilities are important in children's lives because they are correlated with children's emotional intelligence, social relationships, have a good impact on educational aspects, and contribute to children's success in the future. Because of the closeness of the relationship and the bonds they have, parents are the most appropriate person to teach responsibility to children. This research article aims to highlight what role Christian parents can play in contributing to the maximum in teaching their children about responsibility. By using the description method and getting support from literature review, it is hoped that it can provide a strong and in-depth picture related to the discussion of Bible stories about responsibility, the importance of responsibility for children, and the contribution of parents in teaching responsibility to children. The results of this study found that parents can contribute maximally in teaching responsibility to children when they begin to introduce responsibility as early as possible, make responsibility a habit of behavior, become role models, and be sensitive when teaching children. Through living these five things in real life by parents, parents will contribute maximally to the growth of children's responsibilities.


Abstrak

Kegagalan orang tua mengajarkan tanggung jawab pada anak akan menimbulkan berbagai dampak buruk bagi anak baik di masa kini maupun di masa depan anak. Tangung jawab penting dalam kehidupan anak karena terkorelasi dengan kecerdasan emosional anak, hubungan sosial, berdampak baik pada aspek pendidikan, dan bersumbangsih pada kesuksesan anak di masa depan. Karena kedekatan relasi serta ikatan yang dimilikinya maka orang tua adalah pribadi yang paling tepat untuk menggajarkan tanggung jawab kepada anak. Artikel penelitian ini bertujuan menyoroti peran apa saya yang orang tua Kristen bisa lakukan untuk berkontribusi maksimal dalam mengajari anak mereka tentang tanggung jawab. Dengan menggunakan metode deskripsi dan mendapatkan dukungan dari kajian literatur diharapkan bisa memberikan gambaran yang kuat dan mendalam terkait dengan pembahasan contoh cerita Alkitab tentang tanggung jawab, arti penting tanggung jawab bagi anak, dan kontribusi orang tua dalam mengajarkan tanggung jawab pada anak. Hasil penelitian ini menemukan bahwa orang tua bisa berkontribusi maksimal dalam mengajarkan tanggung jawab pada anak ketika mulai memperkenalkan tanggung jawab sedini mungkin, menjadikan tanggung jawab sebagai kebiasaan dalam berperilaku, menjadi role model, dan peka ketika mengajar anak. Melalui dihidupinya kelima hal ini teraplikasi nyata dalam keseharian oleh para orang tua akan berkontribusi maksimal pada tumbuhnya tanggung jawab anak.

Kata kunci: keluarga; keluarga Kristen; pola asuh; tanggung jawab


Keywords


family; Christian family; parenting; responsibility

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